2SLGBT+ CRISIS CALL & TEXT SERVICES GUIDE

DDA Chat room and resource group
Join The Facebook Group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1053021475070135/

Online Child Abuse Survivors Forums and Live Chat Room
isurvive is all about the members. Our collective aim is to offer support to each other from our hearts and through our experiences.
After you have completed our automated registration process to become a member (visit the forum for the registration link), you will be contacted by one of our Admin Team who will guide you through the final steps. We make every effort to ensure that those joining are fully aware of our guidelines and to be on hand to help ease their way into our community.
We have 8 parent forums:
- General Discussion
- Survivors
- Addictions, Self-Harm and Unhealthy Coping Strategies (hidden to non-members)
- Breaking the Cycle
- Self-Care Center
- Family, Friends and Relationships
- Lighthearted and Off Topic
- Creative Corner and Art Gallery
In addition to select sub-forums which are open for reading, you will gain access to the following supplementary ones by becoming a member of isurvive:
- Our Stories
The stories of who we are and of our lives - Survivors of Incest and Sexual Abuse
Discussion area specifically for childhood sexual abuse survivors - Survivors of Ritualized Abuse
Discussion area for survivors whose child abuse was organized, repetitive, secretive, ritualized and/or torture based. Some topics include healing from the abuse caused by cults, religious or spiritual groups, torture-based systematic abuse, mind control, pornography rings, sex trafficking and child prostitution - Survivors with Dissociative Disorders or PTSD
Discussion area for survivors who live daily with PTSD or a Dissociative Disorder. Opportunities to discuss how these conditions impact their lives as well as being a place to gain support, share experiences and offer ideas for managing the symptoms and difficulties that arise. Some topics of discussion include: Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD), Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), Dissociative Amnesia (DA), Dissociative Disorder not otherwise specified (DDNOS), Depersonalization and Derealization Disorder - Dissociative Youth Forum
- Safe discussion areas for dissociative younger parts to share, discuss and seek support as they heal, live and manage daily life
- Male Survivors of Child Abuse, Incest and Sexual Abuse
A discussion and support area for male survivors of all types of child abuse - Contact with Past Abusers/Enablers
Discussion area for issues that arise when contact from abusers or enablers is made. It also is a place to write letters to abusers/enablers to help process feelings and thoughts - Survivors Living/Having a Relationship With Their Abusers
Discussion area for those who choose to remain in contact or are still living with their abusers/enablers. This is an area where discussions can be held free from any pressures to change your circumstances - Survivors with Addictions, Dependence or Compulsions
A forum for adult child abuse survivors dealing with unhealthy behaviour patterns, trapped in an addictive cycle or struggling to break free from compulsive coping methods. Difficulties and healing regarding self-harm, substance abuse, eating disorders, OCD, hoarding, gambling and other similar behaviours can be discussed here - Relationships
A discussion area for processing intimacy and relationship difficulties and sharing healing experiences - Parenting Trials and Tribulations
This is a place for all parents/carers to share difficulties and achievements which may arise while dealing with their own healing
Register to Join Our Forums and Chat Room
We also have a chat room, to which you can request access following a minimum of 2 weeks’ active participation on the forums.
Here you can seek support via real time connection through real time interactions.
Once inside the chat room, you will see a list of the members currently online. To chat, users type a message into a text box. The message is almost immediately visible in the larger communal message area, and other users respond.
Please know that, as a team, we are here to help and can be contacted at any time as follows:
The Directors:
- jonesy@isurvive.org
- serenity@isurvive.org
The Board of Directors:
- boardofdirectors@isurvive.org
Please read through our Forum Guidelines, Terms and Conditions, Disclaimer of Warranties and Limitation of Liability, Privacy Policy, and Chat Guidelines
2SLGBT+ CRISIS CALL & TEXT SERVICES GUIDE

DDA Chat room and resource group
Join The Facebook Group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1053021475070135/

Online Child Abuse Survivors Forums and Live Chat Room
isurvive is all about the members. Our collective aim is to offer support to each other from our hearts and through our experiences.
After you have completed our automated registration process to become a member (visit the forum for the registration link), you will be contacted by one of our Admin Team who will guide you through the final steps. We make every effort to ensure that those joining are fully aware of our guidelines and to be on hand to help ease their way into our community.
We have 8 parent forums:
- General Discussion
- Survivors
- Addictions, Self-Harm and Unhealthy Coping Strategies (hidden to non-members)
- Breaking the Cycle
- Self-Care Center
- Family, Friends and Relationships
- Lighthearted and Off Topic
- Creative Corner and Art Gallery
In addition to select sub-forums which are open for reading, you will gain access to the following supplementary ones by becoming a member of isurvive:
- Our Stories
The stories of who we are and of our lives - Survivors of Incest and Sexual Abuse
Discussion area specifically for childhood sexual abuse survivors - Survivors of Ritualized Abuse
Discussion area for survivors whose child abuse was organized, repetitive, secretive, ritualized and/or torture based. Some topics include healing from the abuse caused by cults, religious or spiritual groups, torture-based systematic abuse, mind control, pornography rings, sex trafficking and child prostitution - Survivors with Dissociative Disorders or PTSD
Discussion area for survivors who live daily with PTSD or a Dissociative Disorder. Opportunities to discuss how these conditions impact their lives as well as being a place to gain support, share experiences and offer ideas for managing the symptoms and difficulties that arise. Some topics of discussion include: Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD), Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), Dissociative Amnesia (DA), Dissociative Disorder not otherwise specified (DDNOS), Depersonalization and Derealization Disorder - Dissociative Youth Forum
- Safe discussion areas for dissociative younger parts to share, discuss and seek support as they heal, live and manage daily life
- Male Survivors of Child Abuse, Incest and Sexual Abuse
A discussion and support area for male survivors of all types of child abuse - Contact with Past Abusers/Enablers
Discussion area for issues that arise when contact from abusers or enablers is made. It also is a place to write letters to abusers/enablers to help process feelings and thoughts - Survivors Living/Having a Relationship With Their Abusers
Discussion area for those who choose to remain in contact or are still living with their abusers/enablers. This is an area where discussions can be held free from any pressures to change your circumstances - Survivors with Addictions, Dependence or Compulsions
A forum for adult child abuse survivors dealing with unhealthy behaviour patterns, trapped in an addictive cycle or struggling to break free from compulsive coping methods. Difficulties and healing regarding self-harm, substance abuse, eating disorders, OCD, hoarding, gambling and other similar behaviours can be discussed here - Relationships
A discussion area for processing intimacy and relationship difficulties and sharing healing experiences - Parenting Trials and Tribulations
This is a place for all parents/carers to share difficulties and achievements which may arise while dealing with their own healing
Register to Join Our Forums and Chat Room
We also have a chat room, to which you can request access following a minimum of 2 weeks’ active participation on the forums.
Here you can seek support via real time connection through real time interactions.
Once inside the chat room, you will see a list of the members currently online. To chat, users type a message into a text box. The message is almost immediately visible in the larger communal message area, and other users respond.
Please know that, as a team, we are here to help and can be contacted at any time as follows:
The Directors:
- jonesy@isurvive.org
- serenity@isurvive.org
The Board of Directors:
- boardofdirectors@isurvive.org
Please read through our Forum Guidelines, Terms and Conditions, Disclaimer of Warranties and Limitation of Liability, Privacy Policy, and Chat Guidelines
2SLGBT+ CRISIS CALL & TEXT SERVICES GUIDE

DDA Chat room and resource group
Join The Facebook Group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1053021475070135/

Online Child Abuse Survivors Forums and Live Chat Room
isurvive is all about the members. Our collective aim is to offer support to each other from our hearts and through our experiences.
After you have completed our automated registration process to become a member (visit the forum for the registration link), you will be contacted by one of our Admin Team who will guide you through the final steps. We make every effort to ensure that those joining are fully aware of our guidelines and to be on hand to help ease their way into our community.
We have 8 parent forums:
- General Discussion
- Survivors
- Addictions, Self-Harm and Unhealthy Coping Strategies (hidden to non-members)
- Breaking the Cycle
- Self-Care Center
- Family, Friends and Relationships
- Lighthearted and Off Topic
- Creative Corner and Art Gallery
In addition to select sub-forums which are open for reading, you will gain access to the following supplementary ones by becoming a member of isurvive:
- Our Stories
The stories of who we are and of our lives - Survivors of Incest and Sexual Abuse
Discussion area specifically for childhood sexual abuse survivors - Survivors of Ritualized Abuse
Discussion area for survivors whose child abuse was organized, repetitive, secretive, ritualized and/or torture based. Some topics include healing from the abuse caused by cults, religious or spiritual groups, torture-based systematic abuse, mind control, pornography rings, sex trafficking and child prostitution - Survivors with Dissociative Disorders or PTSD
Discussion area for survivors who live daily with PTSD or a Dissociative Disorder. Opportunities to discuss how these conditions impact their lives as well as being a place to gain support, share experiences and offer ideas for managing the symptoms and difficulties that arise. Some topics of discussion include: Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD), Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), Dissociative Amnesia (DA), Dissociative Disorder not otherwise specified (DDNOS), Depersonalization and Derealization Disorder - Dissociative Youth Forum
- Safe discussion areas for dissociative younger parts to share, discuss and seek support as they heal, live and manage daily life
- Male Survivors of Child Abuse, Incest and Sexual Abuse
A discussion and support area for male survivors of all types of child abuse - Contact with Past Abusers/Enablers
Discussion area for issues that arise when contact from abusers or enablers is made. It also is a place to write letters to abusers/enablers to help process feelings and thoughts - Survivors Living/Having a Relationship With Their Abusers
Discussion area for those who choose to remain in contact or are still living with their abusers/enablers. This is an area where discussions can be held free from any pressures to change your circumstances - Survivors with Addictions, Dependence or Compulsions
A forum for adult child abuse survivors dealing with unhealthy behaviour patterns, trapped in an addictive cycle or struggling to break free from compulsive coping methods. Difficulties and healing regarding self-harm, substance abuse, eating disorders, OCD, hoarding, gambling and other similar behaviours can be discussed here - Relationships
A discussion area for processing intimacy and relationship difficulties and sharing healing experiences - Parenting Trials and Tribulations
This is a place for all parents/carers to share difficulties and achievements which may arise while dealing with their own healing
Register to Join Our Forums and Chat Room
We also have a chat room, to which you can request access following a minimum of 2 weeks’ active participation on the forums.
Here you can seek support via real time connection through real time interactions.
Once inside the chat room, you will see a list of the members currently online. To chat, users type a message into a text box. The message is almost immediately visible in the larger communal message area, and other users respond.
Please know that, as a team, we are here to help and can be contacted at any time as follows:
The Directors:
- jonesy@isurvive.org
- serenity@isurvive.org
The Board of Directors:
- boardofdirectors@isurvive.org
Please read through our Forum Guidelines, Terms and Conditions, Disclaimer of Warranties and Limitation of Liability, Privacy Policy, and Chat Guidelines
2SLGBT+ CRISIS CALL & TEXT SERVICES GUIDE

DDA Chat room and resource group
Join The Facebook Group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1053021475070135/

Online Child Abuse Survivors Forums and Live Chat Room
isurvive is all about the members. Our collective aim is to offer support to each other from our hearts and through our experiences.
After you have completed our automated registration process to become a member (visit the forum for the registration link), you will be contacted by one of our Admin Team who will guide you through the final steps. We make every effort to ensure that those joining are fully aware of our guidelines and to be on hand to help ease their way into our community.
We have 8 parent forums:
- General Discussion
- Survivors
- Addictions, Self-Harm and Unhealthy Coping Strategies (hidden to non-members)
- Breaking the Cycle
- Self-Care Center
- Family, Friends and Relationships
- Lighthearted and Off Topic
- Creative Corner and Art Gallery
In addition to select sub-forums which are open for reading, you will gain access to the following supplementary ones by becoming a member of isurvive:
- Our Stories
The stories of who we are and of our lives - Survivors of Incest and Sexual Abuse
Discussion area specifically for childhood sexual abuse survivors - Survivors of Ritualized Abuse
Discussion area for survivors whose child abuse was organized, repetitive, secretive, ritualized and/or torture based. Some topics include healing from the abuse caused by cults, religious or spiritual groups, torture-based systematic abuse, mind control, pornography rings, sex trafficking and child prostitution - Survivors with Dissociative Disorders or PTSD
Discussion area for survivors who live daily with PTSD or a Dissociative Disorder. Opportunities to discuss how these conditions impact their lives as well as being a place to gain support, share experiences and offer ideas for managing the symptoms and difficulties that arise. Some topics of discussion include: Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD), Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), Dissociative Amnesia (DA), Dissociative Disorder not otherwise specified (DDNOS), Depersonalization and Derealization Disorder - Dissociative Youth Forum
- Safe discussion areas for dissociative younger parts to share, discuss and seek support as they heal, live and manage daily life
- Male Survivors of Child Abuse, Incest and Sexual Abuse
A discussion and support area for male survivors of all types of child abuse - Contact with Past Abusers/Enablers
Discussion area for issues that arise when contact from abusers or enablers is made. It also is a place to write letters to abusers/enablers to help process feelings and thoughts - Survivors Living/Having a Relationship With Their Abusers
Discussion area for those who choose to remain in contact or are still living with their abusers/enablers. This is an area where discussions can be held free from any pressures to change your circumstances - Survivors with Addictions, Dependence or Compulsions
A forum for adult child abuse survivors dealing with unhealthy behaviour patterns, trapped in an addictive cycle or struggling to break free from compulsive coping methods. Difficulties and healing regarding self-harm, substance abuse, eating disorders, OCD, hoarding, gambling and other similar behaviours can be discussed here - Relationships
A discussion area for processing intimacy and relationship difficulties and sharing healing experiences - Parenting Trials and Tribulations
This is a place for all parents/carers to share difficulties and achievements which may arise while dealing with their own healing
Register to Join Our Forums and Chat Room
We also have a chat room, to which you can request access following a minimum of 2 weeks’ active participation on the forums.
Here you can seek support via real time connection through real time interactions.
Once inside the chat room, you will see a list of the members currently online. To chat, users type a message into a text box. The message is almost immediately visible in the larger communal message area, and other users respond.
Please know that, as a team, we are here to help and can be contacted at any time as follows:
The Directors:
- jonesy@isurvive.org
- serenity@isurvive.org
The Board of Directors:
- boardofdirectors@isurvive.org
Please read through our Forum Guidelines, Terms and Conditions, Disclaimer of Warranties and Limitation of Liability, Privacy Policy, and Chat Guidelines

StepChat
Recovery Chat Room
Narcotics Anonymous Meeting, Saturdays, 8:00AM PST
Register to Attend
https://www.stepchat.co/chat/room1.htm
To Attend A Meeting In a Chat Room
When you first log on you will be in The Lounge which is not a meeting room, but open chat fellowship available 24/7 to members of all 12-step groups.
To go to the meeting rooms from The Lounge, click on the 3-dot menu icon at the top left of the chat screen, then click on the meeting room you wish to enter. If you don’t see the 3 dots, click the ESC key or swipe from the left if you are on a mobile device.
Tips for Chat Meetings
There is no real protocol for “informal” chat gatherings in our open chat rooms, but in our meeting rooms, we try to keep it as much of a face-to-face meeting as possible. Just as in a face-to-face meeting, we do not interrupt the person who is “speaking” or crosstalk after they are done.
Also, as in a face-to-face meeting, someone serves as the “chairperson” who opens the meetings, picks a topic and helps keep the meeting focused on the topic discussion as members take turn sharing on the topic.
Some of our meetings have a “greeter” who sends a private message to any late-comers to the meeting to welcome them and tell them the topics of discussion. If the late-comer is new to online meetings, the greeter may also explain briefly how meetings work (see below).
NOTE: To send someone a private message during the meeting, click on their name in the members’ list to the right of the chat window. To receive a private message, click on the name of the person who sent it.
If you wish to share, type an exclamation point like this: !. It’s like raising your hand.
The chair of the meeting will then call on the next person to share. In our chat rooms, it is best to type short lines followed by “. . .” which indicates that you are not finished. Like this:
One of the best tools I have found …
When I find myself under stress …
Is the Serenity Prayer … [done]
The [done] at the ends shows that you are finished, and the chairperson then will call on the next person to share.
That’s it. Those simple tools can keep things orderly even in a full chat room.
For instructions on how to log on to the chat rooms, please see this page.

StepChat
Recovery Chat Room – 3rd Tradition A.A. Meeting
Saturdays, 5:00PM PST
Register to Attend
https://www.stepchat.com/chat/room1.htm
To Attend A Meeting In a Chat Room
When you first log on you will be in The Lounge which is not a meeting room, but open chat fellowship available 24/7 to members of all 12-step groups.
To go to the meeting rooms from The Lounge, click on the 3-dot menu icon at the top left of the chat screen, then click on the meeting room you wish to enter. If you don’t see the 3 dots, click the ESC key or swipe from the left if you are on a mobile device.
Tips for Chat Meetings
There is no real protocol for “informal” chat gatherings in our open chat rooms, but in our meeting rooms, we try to keep it as much of a face-to-face meeting as possible. Just as in a face-to-face meeting, we do not interrupt the person who is “speaking” or crosstalk after they are done.
Also, as in a face-to-face meeting, someone serves as the “chairperson” who opens the meetings, picks a topic and helps keep the meeting focused on the topic discussion as members take turn sharing on the topic.
Some of our meetings have a “greeter” who sends a private message to any late-comers to the meeting to welcome them and tell them the topics of discussion. If the late-comer is new to online meetings, the greeter may also explain briefly how meetings work (see below).
NOTE: To send someone a private message during the meeting, click on their name in the members’ list to the right of the chat window. To receive a private message, click on the name of the person who sent it.
If you wish to share, type an exclamation point like this: !. It’s like raising your hand.
The chair of the meeting will then call on the next person to share. In our chat rooms, it is best to type short lines followed by “. . .” which indicates that you are not finished. Like this:
One of the best tools I have found …
When I find myself under stress …
Is the Serenity Prayer … [done]
The [done] at the ends shows that you are finished, and the chairperson then will call on the next person to share.
That’s it. Those simple tools can keep things orderly even in a full chat room.
For instructions on how to log on to the chat rooms, please see this page.
2SLGBT+ CRISIS CALL & TEXT SERVICES GUIDE

DDA Chat room and resource group
Join The Facebook Group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1053021475070135/

Online Child Abuse Survivors Forums and Live Chat Room
isurvive is all about the members. Our collective aim is to offer support to each other from our hearts and through our experiences.
After you have completed our automated registration process to become a member (visit the forum for the registration link), you will be contacted by one of our Admin Team who will guide you through the final steps. We make every effort to ensure that those joining are fully aware of our guidelines and to be on hand to help ease their way into our community.
We have 8 parent forums:
- General Discussion
- Survivors
- Addictions, Self-Harm and Unhealthy Coping Strategies (hidden to non-members)
- Breaking the Cycle
- Self-Care Center
- Family, Friends and Relationships
- Lighthearted and Off Topic
- Creative Corner and Art Gallery
In addition to select sub-forums which are open for reading, you will gain access to the following supplementary ones by becoming a member of isurvive:
- Our Stories
The stories of who we are and of our lives - Survivors of Incest and Sexual Abuse
Discussion area specifically for childhood sexual abuse survivors - Survivors of Ritualized Abuse
Discussion area for survivors whose child abuse was organized, repetitive, secretive, ritualized and/or torture based. Some topics include healing from the abuse caused by cults, religious or spiritual groups, torture-based systematic abuse, mind control, pornography rings, sex trafficking and child prostitution - Survivors with Dissociative Disorders or PTSD
Discussion area for survivors who live daily with PTSD or a Dissociative Disorder. Opportunities to discuss how these conditions impact their lives as well as being a place to gain support, share experiences and offer ideas for managing the symptoms and difficulties that arise. Some topics of discussion include: Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD), Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), Dissociative Amnesia (DA), Dissociative Disorder not otherwise specified (DDNOS), Depersonalization and Derealization Disorder - Dissociative Youth Forum
- Safe discussion areas for dissociative younger parts to share, discuss and seek support as they heal, live and manage daily life
- Male Survivors of Child Abuse, Incest and Sexual Abuse
A discussion and support area for male survivors of all types of child abuse - Contact with Past Abusers/Enablers
Discussion area for issues that arise when contact from abusers or enablers is made. It also is a place to write letters to abusers/enablers to help process feelings and thoughts - Survivors Living/Having a Relationship With Their Abusers
Discussion area for those who choose to remain in contact or are still living with their abusers/enablers. This is an area where discussions can be held free from any pressures to change your circumstances - Survivors with Addictions, Dependence or Compulsions
A forum for adult child abuse survivors dealing with unhealthy behaviour patterns, trapped in an addictive cycle or struggling to break free from compulsive coping methods. Difficulties and healing regarding self-harm, substance abuse, eating disorders, OCD, hoarding, gambling and other similar behaviours can be discussed here - Relationships
A discussion area for processing intimacy and relationship difficulties and sharing healing experiences - Parenting Trials and Tribulations
This is a place for all parents/carers to share difficulties and achievements which may arise while dealing with their own healing
Register to Join Our Forums and Chat Room
We also have a chat room, to which you can request access following a minimum of 2 weeks’ active participation on the forums.
Here you can seek support via real time connection through real time interactions.
Once inside the chat room, you will see a list of the members currently online. To chat, users type a message into a text box. The message is almost immediately visible in the larger communal message area, and other users respond.
Please know that, as a team, we are here to help and can be contacted at any time as follows:
The Directors:
- jonesy@isurvive.org
- serenity@isurvive.org
The Board of Directors:
- boardofdirectors@isurvive.org
Please read through our Forum Guidelines, Terms and Conditions, Disclaimer of Warranties and Limitation of Liability, Privacy Policy, and Chat Guidelines

StepChat
Recovery Chat Room
Recovery Chat Room – 5th Tradition A.A. Meeting
Sundays, 7:00PM PST
Register to Attend
https://www.stepchat.com/chat/room1.htm
To Attend A Meeting In a Chat Room
When you first log on you will be in The Lounge which is not a meeting room, but open chat fellowship available 24/7 to members of all 12-step groups.
To go to the meeting rooms from The Lounge, click on the 3-dot menu icon at the top left of the chat screen, then click on the meeting room you wish to enter. If you don’t see the 3 dots, click the ESC key or swipe from the left if you are on a mobile device.
Tips for Chat Meetings
There is no real protocol for “informal” chat gatherings in our open chat rooms, but in our meeting rooms, we try to keep it as much of a face-to-face meeting as possible. Just as in a face-to-face meeting, we do not interrupt the person who is “speaking” or crosstalk after they are done.
Also, as in a face-to-face meeting, someone serves as the “chairperson” who opens the meetings, picks a topic and helps keep the meeting focused on the topic discussion as members take turn sharing on the topic.
Some of our meetings have a “greeter” who sends a private message to any late-comers to the meeting to welcome them and tell them the topics of discussion. If the late-comer is new to online meetings, the greeter may also explain briefly how meetings work (see below).
NOTE: To send someone a private message during the meeting, click on their name in the members’ list to the right of the chat window. To receive a private message, click on the name of the person who sent it.
If you wish to share, type an exclamation point like this: !. It’s like raising your hand.
The chair of the meeting will then call on the next person to share. In our chat rooms, it is best to type short lines followed by “. . .” which indicates that you are not finished. Like this:
One of the best tools I have found …
When I find myself under stress …
Is the Serenity Prayer … [done]
The [done] at the ends shows that you are finished, and the chairperson then will call on the next person to share.
That’s it. Those simple tools can keep things orderly even in a full chat room.
For instructions on how to log on to the chat rooms, please see this page.
2SLGBT+ CRISIS CALL & TEXT SERVICES GUIDE

DDA Chat room and resource group
Join The Facebook Group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1053021475070135/

Online Child Abuse Survivors Forums and Live Chat Room
isurvive is all about the members. Our collective aim is to offer support to each other from our hearts and through our experiences.
After you have completed our automated registration process to become a member (visit the forum for the registration link), you will be contacted by one of our Admin Team who will guide you through the final steps. We make every effort to ensure that those joining are fully aware of our guidelines and to be on hand to help ease their way into our community.
We have 8 parent forums:
- General Discussion
- Survivors
- Addictions, Self-Harm and Unhealthy Coping Strategies (hidden to non-members)
- Breaking the Cycle
- Self-Care Center
- Family, Friends and Relationships
- Lighthearted and Off Topic
- Creative Corner and Art Gallery
In addition to select sub-forums which are open for reading, you will gain access to the following supplementary ones by becoming a member of isurvive:
- Our Stories
The stories of who we are and of our lives - Survivors of Incest and Sexual Abuse
Discussion area specifically for childhood sexual abuse survivors - Survivors of Ritualized Abuse
Discussion area for survivors whose child abuse was organized, repetitive, secretive, ritualized and/or torture based. Some topics include healing from the abuse caused by cults, religious or spiritual groups, torture-based systematic abuse, mind control, pornography rings, sex trafficking and child prostitution - Survivors with Dissociative Disorders or PTSD
Discussion area for survivors who live daily with PTSD or a Dissociative Disorder. Opportunities to discuss how these conditions impact their lives as well as being a place to gain support, share experiences and offer ideas for managing the symptoms and difficulties that arise. Some topics of discussion include: Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD), Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), Dissociative Amnesia (DA), Dissociative Disorder not otherwise specified (DDNOS), Depersonalization and Derealization Disorder - Dissociative Youth Forum
- Safe discussion areas for dissociative younger parts to share, discuss and seek support as they heal, live and manage daily life
- Male Survivors of Child Abuse, Incest and Sexual Abuse
A discussion and support area for male survivors of all types of child abuse - Contact with Past Abusers/Enablers
Discussion area for issues that arise when contact from abusers or enablers is made. It also is a place to write letters to abusers/enablers to help process feelings and thoughts - Survivors Living/Having a Relationship With Their Abusers
Discussion area for those who choose to remain in contact or are still living with their abusers/enablers. This is an area where discussions can be held free from any pressures to change your circumstances - Survivors with Addictions, Dependence or Compulsions
A forum for adult child abuse survivors dealing with unhealthy behaviour patterns, trapped in an addictive cycle or struggling to break free from compulsive coping methods. Difficulties and healing regarding self-harm, substance abuse, eating disorders, OCD, hoarding, gambling and other similar behaviours can be discussed here - Relationships
A discussion area for processing intimacy and relationship difficulties and sharing healing experiences - Parenting Trials and Tribulations
This is a place for all parents/carers to share difficulties and achievements which may arise while dealing with their own healing
Register to Join Our Forums and Chat Room
We also have a chat room, to which you can request access following a minimum of 2 weeks’ active participation on the forums.
Here you can seek support via real time connection through real time interactions.
Once inside the chat room, you will see a list of the members currently online. To chat, users type a message into a text box. The message is almost immediately visible in the larger communal message area, and other users respond.
Please know that, as a team, we are here to help and can be contacted at any time as follows:
The Directors:
- jonesy@isurvive.org
- serenity@isurvive.org
The Board of Directors:
- boardofdirectors@isurvive.org
Please read through our Forum Guidelines, Terms and Conditions, Disclaimer of Warranties and Limitation of Liability, Privacy Policy, and Chat Guidelines

StepChat
Recovery Chat Room
Recovery Chat Room – 3rd Tradition A.A. Meeting
Mondays, 9:00AM PST
Register to Attend
https://www.stepchat.com/chat/room1.htm
To Attend A Meeting In a Chat Room
When you first log on you will be in The Lounge which is not a meeting room, but open chat fellowship available 24/7 to members of all 12-step groups.
To go to the meeting rooms from The Lounge, click on the 3-dot menu icon at the top left of the chat screen, then click on the meeting room you wish to enter. If you don’t see the 3 dots, click the ESC key or swipe from the left if you are on a mobile device.
Tips for Chat Meetings
There is no real protocol for “informal” chat gatherings in our open chat rooms, but in our meeting rooms, we try to keep it as much of a face-to-face meeting as possible. Just as in a face-to-face meeting, we do not interrupt the person who is “speaking” or crosstalk after they are done.
Also, as in a face-to-face meeting, someone serves as the “chairperson” who opens the meetings, picks a topic and helps keep the meeting focused on the topic discussion as members take turn sharing on the topic.
Some of our meetings have a “greeter” who sends a private message to any late-comers to the meeting to welcome them and tell them the topics of discussion. If the late-comer is new to online meetings, the greeter may also explain briefly how meetings work (see below).
NOTE: To send someone a private message during the meeting, click on their name in the members’ list to the right of the chat window. To receive a private message, click on the name of the person who sent it.
If you wish to share, type an exclamation point like this: !. It’s like raising your hand.
The chair of the meeting will then call on the next person to share. In our chat rooms, it is best to type short lines followed by “. . .” which indicates that you are not finished. Like this:
One of the best tools I have found …
When I find myself under stress …
Is the Serenity Prayer … [done]
The [done] at the ends shows that you are finished, and the chairperson then will call on the next person to share.
That’s it. Those simple tools can keep things orderly even in a full chat room.
For instructions on how to log on to the chat rooms, please see this page.

StepChat
Recovery Chat Room
Recovery Chat Room – A.A. Step Study Meeting
Mondays – 4PM PST
Register to Attend
https://www.stepchat.com/chat/room1.htm
To Attend A Meeting In a Chat Room
When you first log on you will be in The Lounge which is not a meeting room, but open chat fellowship available 24/7 to members of all 12-step groups.
To go to the meeting rooms from The Lounge, click on the 3-dot menu icon at the top left of the chat screen, then click on the meeting room you wish to enter. If you don’t see the 3 dots, click the ESC key or swipe from the left if you are on a mobile device.
Tips for Chat Meetings
There is no real protocol for “informal” chat gatherings in our open chat rooms, but in our meeting rooms, we try to keep it as much of a face-to-face meeting as possible. Just as in a face-to-face meeting, we do not interrupt the person who is “speaking” or crosstalk after they are done.
Also, as in a face-to-face meeting, someone serves as the “chairperson” who opens the meetings, picks a topic and helps keep the meeting focused on the topic discussion as members take turn sharing on the topic.
Some of our meetings have a “greeter” who sends a private message to any late-comers to the meeting to welcome them and tell them the topics of discussion. If the late-comer is new to online meetings, the greeter may also explain briefly how meetings work (see below).
NOTE: To send someone a private message during the meeting, click on their name in the members’ list to the right of the chat window. To receive a private message, click on the name of the person who sent it.
If you wish to share, type an exclamation point like this: !. It’s like raising your hand.
The chair of the meeting will then call on the next person to share. In our chat rooms, it is best to type short lines followed by “. . .” which indicates that you are not finished. Like this:
One of the best tools I have found …
When I find myself under stress …
Is the Serenity Prayer … [done]
The [done] at the ends shows that you are finished, and the chairperson then will call on the next person to share.
That’s it. Those simple tools can keep things orderly even in a full chat room.
For instructions on how to log on to the chat rooms, please see this page.
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