Whats OK
Young Adult Support for Sexual Health & Safety
Ages 14-21 | Free, Confidential, Non-Judgmental
Have questions about sexual thoughts, feelings, or behaviors? Not sure if something is OK? You’re not alone, and we’re here to help – no judgment, no lectures, just real support.
REACH OUT NOW
📱 TEXT: WHATSOK to 1.888.532.0550
📞 CALL: 1.888.PREVENT (1-888-773-8368)
You can also chat or email us anytime
WHEN TO REACH OUT
WhatsOK is here for you if you’re wondering about:
Your Own Questions:
- Sexual thoughts or feelings that confuse you
- Wondering if you crossed a boundary
- Concerns about your attractions
- Questions about what’s normal vs. concerning
- Feeling pressured to do sexual things
Worried About a Friend:
- A friend told you about concerning sexual thoughts
- You’re worried about someone’s behavior
- Not sure how to help or what to say
Online Safety:
- Questions about porn, sexting, or nude photos
- Concerns about CSAM, lolicon, hentai, or shotacon
- Technology-facilitated abuse or AI exploitation
- Online relationships and safety
Understanding Boundaries:
- What is and isn’t consent
- Age differences in relationships
- Sexual health and safety
- What makes a relationship healthy vs. unhealthy
WHEN WE’RE AVAILABLE
Live Support Hours (Pacific Time):
Monday: 9:00 AM – 5:00 PM PT
Tuesday: 9:00 AM – 3:00 PM PT
Wednesday: 9:00 AM – 3:00 PM PT
Thursday: 7:00 AM – 3:00 PM PT
Friday: 9:00 AM – 3:00 PM PT
Email us anytime – we’ll respond within 3 days
Browse our website 24/7 for instant answers
HOW TO CONNECT WITH US
💬 Text (Best for quick chats):
Text WHATSOK to 1.888.532.0550
Message back and forth with a counselor (15-45 min conversations)
📞 Phone:
Call 1.888.PREVENT (1-888-773-8368)
Talk live with a counselor during helpline hours
💻 Chat:
Live chat during helpline hours
📧 Email:
Send us a message anytime – we respond within 3 days
🌐 Browse Resources:
Read blogs, FAQs, and stories from other youth (available 24/7)
WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN YOU REACH OUT
- Quick Connection
Wait times are usually under 5 minutes. You’ll get a message that a counselor will be with you soon.
- Tell Us What We Need to Know
We’ll ask what to call you, your age, and what state/country you’re in. You don’t need to share your real name or any identifying details.
- Ask Whatever You Need
Share what feels comfortable at your own pace. No pressure. We’ve heard it all before – nothing will shock us.
- Get Support & Resources
We’ll give you accurate info about sexual safety, help you think through next steps, and connect you with resources if you want them.
WHO YOU’LL BE TALKING TO
Our counselors are trained professionals who specialize in:
- Sexual health and development
- Healthy vs. concerning sexual behaviors
- Relationships and consent
- Trauma and abuse prevention
We’re here to help – not to judge, lecture, or pressure you.
What we can do:
✓ Listen and support you
✓ Give accurate information
✓ Help you think through options
✓ Connect you with resources
What we can’t do:
✗ Provide ongoing therapy
✗ Give legal or medical advice
✗ Make referrals to specific local therapists
YOUR PRIVACY IS PROTECTED
Everything is confidential:
- We don’t use caller or text IDs
- Chat IP addresses are invisible to us
- You don’t need to give your real name
- You don’t need to share addresses or phone numbers
Important to know: If you tell us someone is being hurt right now or a crime is happening, we may be legally required to report it. We’ll be upfront with you about this.
WHY WHATSOK IS DIFFERENT
Built BY youth, FOR youth:
We have a Youth Advisory Council (ages 14-21) who help shape our services. They make sure we’re using language that makes sense, covering topics that matter, and creating a space where you actually want to reach out.
No shame, no judgment:
Sexual development is complicated. Having questions is normal. Feeling confused is normal. We get it, and we’re here to help – not to make you feel worse.
Focused on prevention:
We believe that getting help early – when you’re just questioning or concerned – can prevent harm and help you stay on a healthy path. It takes courage to reach out, and we respect that.
ABOUT WHATSOK
WhatsOK launched in 2021 as a specialized resource for young people ages 14-21. We’re a program of Stop It Now! (Klingberg Family Services), funded by World Childhood Foundation.
Since 2021, we’ve helped over 800 young people through our helpline and reached thousands more through our website resources.
Website: https://www.whatsok.org
Email: [email protected]
Parents/Adults: If you’re 21+, check out Stop It Now! at stopitnow.org
Remember: All our services are completely free. No one should ever have to pay to get help or ask questions.
Emergency: If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911.